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FAQ About Genital Herpes
Transmission and
Prevention
Herpes can be spread through
skin-to-skin contact at any time
the virus is in its active phase:
Viral shedding deposits HSV on the
skin or a mucous membrane. Contact
with another individual's skin
allows virus to spread and begin
the job of situating itself in the
nervous system of a new host.
How Many People Have Genital
Herpes?
At least half of the population is
infected with oral herpes, an
illness often passed during
childhood. And approximately
one-quarter of Americans over the
age of 15 are infected with
genital herpes -- an estimated 40
to 50 million.
These numbers may seem hard to
believe. To put them in proper
perspective, remember: HSV is
usually a very subtle infection.
In research studies, less than a
third of those infected could
easily recognize herpes symptoms
The remainder -- the vast majority
-- could not. Most people simply
don't know they are carriers. ( In
some cases, this is because they
have failed to identify some of
the milder symptoms of herpes. In
others, it's because they
apparently have suffered from no
symptoms at all.)
How Can I Find Out If I Have
Herpes?
If you have genital symptoms now,
it's important to see a medical
professional as soon as possible
to be examined and tested.
If you've had genital symptoms in
the past or believe you were
exposed to genital herpes and want
to know whether you now have it
now, there are new blood tests
available that detect can herpes
even without symptoms present.
How Did I Get Herpes?
Herpes can be so subtle that even
the active phases are sometimes
hard to identify. As a result,
herpes is often spread during
periods when people simply don't
recognize the virus has become
active. In addition, a person can
acquire herpes without recognizing
the "first episode."
For these reasons, it's often
difficult to trace the source of
infection or know exactly when
transmission occurred.
How Does Transmission Occur
During Symptomatic Recurrences?
If a person has a herpes sore on
the lips, for example, he or she
can spread herpes to the lips of
another person through kissing.
Infection can also be spread from
the lips to the genitals during
oral sex. This is why so many
cases of genital herpes are caused
today by herpes type 1.
If one has a herpes sore on the
genitals, coitus or other
unprotected sexual activity gives
the virus a chance to spread.
How Does Transmission Occur
During Sub clinical Shedding?
The same principles and same
scenarios hold. Unrecognized or
"sub clinical" shedding has been
documented in or around the mouth
as well as in various genital
sites such as the vagina, penis,
and anus. Thus, if HSV is active,
oral, anal or vaginal intercourse
can cause transmission -- even
when one has no visible sores or
other signs and symptoms.
How Can I Reduce The Risk Of
Giving This To My Partner?
Because it's hard to pinpoint
herpes' active phases, preventing
transmission is not a simple
matter. But there are a number of
measures you can take to lower the
risk of transmitting herpes:
Refrain from
sexual contact when symptoms are
present - including prodrome.
Following outbreaks, it's best to
wait for a day or two after the
skin heals up, since sub clinical
viral shedding is more likely at
this time.
Consider using condoms:
Because of the risk of
transmission from sub clinical
shedding, it may be helpful to use
condoms for penetrative sex in
between outbreaks. Condoms
restrict contact between the penis
and the mucosal surfaces of the
vagina, mouth or anus, where sub
clinical shedding is known to
occur. Be advised: Condoms may not
cover all sites of viral shedding,
and they don't provide a 100%
guarantee against herpes
transmission. For example, herpes
sores may be present on the
scrotum or upper thigh, or virus
may be shed into vaginal
secretions that would reach places
not covered.
On the other hand, condoms are the
best all-around form of protection
against HIV and other sexually
transmitted diseases (STDs).
Consider medication: Some
research shows that the use of
daily antiviral therapy
dramatically lessens the rate of
asymptomatic viral shedding as
well as reducing the frequency of
outbreaks.
The effect of daily therapy on
transmission rates is still under
study.
Consider outercourse:
Touching, cuddling, kissing,
sensual massage and many other
ways of giving sexual pleasure
carry less risk than penetrative
intercourse. Contact with a herpes
lesion, however, is never
risk-free.
Which Combination Of These
Precautions Is Right For You?
It's best to talk these over and
make decisions with your partner.
In doing so, note that your
partner's medical history may be
an important consideration. If he
or she has already acquired
herpes, for example, it may be
important to know the type and
discuss which precautions you
still want to take. The best way
to find this out is to get a
type-specific blood test. For more
information about
these tests, including the new
rapid, finger prick test for
herpes, search
google.com for 'herpes tests.'
What Are the Odds of Infecting a
Partner?
Unfortunately, no single
precaution listed above can
guarantee protection for a sexual
partner. And because it's
difficult to organize scientific
studies of sexual behavior,
there's no easy way to rate the
effectiveness of each risk
reduction strategy. Your sexual
partner's risk of acquiring herpes
will vary according to a number of
factors. For couples in whom one
partner has genital herpes and the
other does not, it appears the
average rate of transmission is
about 10% per year when the
couples simply refrain from
intercourse during outbreaks. But
this average obscures two
important factors:
1) The risk to uninfected women is
roughly three times greater than
the risk to men.
2) the risk of acquiring herpes
type 2 is higher in those who have
not previously been infected with
herpes type 1.
A potentially important variable
in risk may be the use of
suppressive antiviral therapy. One
study showed a 95% reduction in
sub clinical shedding in people
taking daily antiviral therapy, a
result that could indicate lowered
risk of transmission as well.
Follow-up studies are addressing
this question.